Accusations Create an Intention STOP IT

One of the things I have learned from examining my past is how I was accused of many things that were not accurate and in time it happened. When we understand thoughts, words, actions and intentions, what is being said to a person is literally programming the future of a another person.

It is like how gossip works with people, if you get enough people you can send a shit load of blocks, bad luck, accidents, close calls and even death. I have done many posts on facebook and the effects of gossip in the energetic (spiritual) world.

If you believe it or not here are the spiritual facts. What I am sharing is happening even as we speak I write this post. I see what needs to be shared, I sit, I write and my guides tell me what is coming next. I channel when I write. So it is from the other side, through me, I am a vessel and helper to the other side. And boy oh boy do they have lots to share with you.

This is the physical facts. We are energy, we are spirit, we are matter, we are vibration and our whole being releases it with every movement, thought, words, hidden intentions, deliberate intentions, actions, prayers, ceremonies, etc. We are walking bags of water that conducts all energy. And we send and receive ALL of that energy/

So in our words in attacking another person, we are putting that energy (through thoughts, words and actions) and human behaviors in front of them. Many times, if I compliment a person that they are beautiful, it is putting a beautiful energy of beauty in front of them and it helps them, boosts them and encourages them to keep going. Whether they realize it or not, my intentions with comments are pure. There was no one there to compliment me, so I do it for myself, pay my back and say "Good job Barb" for the last five year, so NOW it is easy for me to share that.

The same thing happens when we accuse, lie, gossip and have some nasty thoughts. That energy goes out of the person saying and it it slams the other person, sends stings, puts blocks on their path. And remember how energy works, IT SLING SHOTS BACK. So as soon as it does its job of dulling a persons shine, hurting them, causing stress in their body, making them feel bad and wanting to just fucking give up. That is what you will get back.

I have clients who come to me thinking they have bad medicine on them and it is their own hidden intentions, gossip, lies, and accusations that are sitting inside of them. Many times what they say about others, hits their backs and it causes back pain, tightening of the neck, muscles, headaches and sore stomachs. Most times it is self inflicted. And even if I ask them have you ever gossiped about another person really bad recently, they will not speak in the Absolute Truth. That is what self denial is, is lying to self. So we just help them and remove it and share how gossip works and how to correct self.

Oh shit, in my teens and 20's I was a master at gossiping, I would talk on the phone for hours with a few people and getting information on the latest. I would literally have people call me too, to share what happened and what is going on. In those moments it was INTENSE feelings of gratification and a sexual high-THAT IS WHY IT IS SO ADDICTING TO PEOPLE. They are addicted to the high that comes after. And it is like a drug and it takes awareness, practice and correcting self over time to get use to not having that feeling. It is a weaning process.

How do I know because I went back and remembered it, remembered the feeling, felt it all and the energy I let out. I also looked at what happened to them, how it affected them and went back and remembered what it was like to receive that energy. It was not healthy at all. I had a whole bunch of prayers to do with every person I could remember, so that I could disconnect that attachment, ask their spirits to forgive me and ask for a blessing on all their spirits. Then I had to forgive myself and shift my behaviors.

Even today, if I catch myself I will stop myself and change the subject. If I am around it, I change the subject and if the other person does not shut up. I will do prayer for the person(s) they are talking about, so they are safe. I see the darkness come out of their third eye, mouths, throat, heart and if they really hate them, black comes out of their stomach. I also pray for the person who is letting all that darkness out, to be blessed, purified and send back to mother earth as healing energy. So it is a process.

Even when I am speaking about my experience and it includes another person. I always make a point to say "What I am sharing is the Absolute Truth, that it is not to hit or hurt anyone, I am sharing facts only. I am asking all the emotions and energy that leaves me is blessed and purified and helps Mother Earth heal." So it is blessing it and redirecting it. However you want to do it. Even in the middle of sharing a my life's experience, I will say it in my mind.

I had to find other ways to make me happy, so I read books that were inspiring, that were spiritual, that were scientific and backed up First Nations ANCIENT KNOWLEDGE. I was like a big geek (still am) and read hundreds of books. I fed my mind knowledge and that knowledge made me HAPPY because it was making so much sense to me and giving our people credit in my mind. I new we were an AMAZING peoples! We just have to open our minds, research and put what we know to what is being shared today in metaphysics, physics, microbiology, quantum physics and anything else you can get your brain neurons on.

I also had to learn how to make myself happy in small moments, I taught myself to celebrate everything, even the silliest of things so my brain could release happy chemicals on it own instead of seeking outside fulfillment. I would raise my arms up fast and say "YES!" It is silly I tell you but the chemical release in the brain is what kept me sane in the darkest times of grief and loss. I had to retrain my own brain and I knew it. So I found silly ways that worked because I can feel everything in my body and I know saying YES and the act or raising the arms releases happy chemicals.

Yes, we have to be aware and retrain. I think back to all the times I accused and holy shit did they ever follow through. I can see it now in my teenage years. We learn as we go that we don't own people, we don't control people, and we don't possess people, every single person in this world is LOANED TO US. Our parents, siblings, children, friends, spouses, pets and everything we have.

It is the simple terminology of what do you do with car that you rent or is loaned to you? You take good care of it, keep it clean, drive safe and make sure it is just as good or even better than you got it. Right? What do you do with your own vehicle? let it get dirty, garbage pile up, clean it once and a while and forget about it. Yup, that kind of terminology. Everything in life is loaned to us, SO TAKE CARE OF IT, TAKE CARE OF IT, KEEP IT SAFE, PROTECT IT, SUPPORT IT, HELP IT RISE UP, HAVE REGULAR MAINTENACE AND MAKE SURE THE OILS ARE CHANGED ;) Like that borrowed car!

Shifting your perspectives is so easy, just educate your mind, relearn, OPEN YOUR MIND to new possibilities and watch, you life gets better...just small moments at a time. They may be small, but dammit build on it! Those small acts of self love build your FIRM FOUNDATION. And you are so worth it, you are worth your weight in gold x 1,000,000,000 to the power of infinity!

Sharing with kindness, gentleness, compassion and unconditional love,

Barbara